Have you reached the chapter talking about cleaning? Ok, I must say, I agree with the ladies, it does not come naturally to me, at all. Not that I'm not wanting my house to be perfect, as I know that will never happen, but I do want order, and I need a system. I'm working on thinking of ways to create that "system", and it is really hard.
What systems work for you? Do you have a day that you clean a level of your house? Do you clean one room a day? What works in your house?
I'm definitely trying, and it is incredibly hard, but hey, I will get there! I will no longer allow myself to be "desperate".
I hope to post my "system", as an accountability, soon! :)